Monday, July 16, 2018

Christmas in July - Take One - July16, 2018

***Mom's Note,  this is the email Sister Gray sent to a bunch of people that should have been sent just to me.  I'm sharing it because I thought it was darling, and I am so excited she is having such a great time with Sister Keller. 

What is love? Love is such an interesting thing. I'm not talking romantic love. That is quite icky. Love is an expression or act that you are willing to do for the benefit of others. This kind of love often requires sacrifice. As I have said many a time.... sacrifice brings forth the blessings of Heaven. Mom, you know that I do not particularly enjoy holidays. They seem like a waste of time.

I especially despise when holidays are "over celebrated" such as Christmas! Don't get me wrong, I do like Christmas but, I do not think that we need to start celebrating Christmas before December. Yet, love is an important factor in a good companionship. So what do you do? You listen to nothing but Christmas music with your amazing companion cause you love her a whole ton. 

You asked me a few weeks ago how things are going with sister K and they are going great. I freaking love her with all of my hair (did you know I am balding) lol, stress is my best friend). But yeah things are great with my cute comp. 

We have a lot of good times. And we are effective missionaries and that makes the world go round. I just thought you would like to know that it's freaking July and I'm listening to Hark the Harold Angels Sing because you taught me to be a good person. 
 
In fact, I thought it would be fun to share with you a few things we have done. Usually on P-days or at night.

We waxed our arms (yes, we totally did and I felt like a baby dolphin afterwards)
We have eaten approximately a gallon of ice cream a week
We are piercing sister Keller's ears
We are best friends with the Elders in our zone (in a missionary way, not a flirty way) which is way good because before I swear to you they were statues. Now they are semi-life filled beings that will bring cookies to district meeting.
We formed a volleyball team within our ward
We ate nasty food
We have become best friends
We play crowns at 3 in the morning when the dog that lives in the apartment upstairs won't stop barking (we still get up on time though, no disobedience here).
We have a game that includes hiding a stuffed hedgehog within our apartment in hopes to scare the other person (his names is Dr. hodge)
We bake bread for various people within the ward weekly
I have learned 3 new hymns, be still my soul, come follow me, Jesus savior pilot me.
We have each thrown at least 2 spiders on each other
Best. Moment. Ever.
I have had food poisoning twice due to spoiled milk (I need to read labels haha)
We have helped Decatur gain trust in its missionaries.


So yeah! That's a broken down version of this transfer. It has been great.

LOVE YA! ! ! 

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LOL take Two - July 16, 2018

Once upon a time there was a sister missionary who accidentally sent an email meant just for her mom to her group... so for all y'all that got that email.. you are welcome 😅.

Anyway.... this week was such a good week! We are up here in Denton for the day so this will be rather short but a lot of you go another email sooo... no regrets. 

This week was different than the other weeks. We had exchanges. I stayed here in good ol' Decatur. Sister K headed up to westherford. It was fun because I was able to see my MTC companion. It's crazy to think that she is an STL now but we all knew it was coming:) we had a good time and lots of miracles happened. We taught a lesson with betty and LeDonna. The night before I was thinkin about them and everything that they are going through. They have a lot of trial and heart ache right now. I wanted to help them with words of comfort but I didn't know what to say. I said a prayer earlier in the day during personal study for help. Nothing too tremendous happened. Then, later I was explaining to sister Dotson (the STL with me) her situation. I kid you not, mid sentence the spirit silenced me. A direct thought entered my head with the name of a talk from 1986. I looked up the talk, and read. 

Immediately I knew what she needed. The following morning we had our lessons nd we were able to read excerpts of the talk with her. The spirit was so strong. She began to cry and we were able to testify of the amazing power of the atonement and the peace that comes from it. It was one of the most powerful moments I have yet to experience. Isn't the spirit great?:) 

If any of y'all have time, check out the talk peace-a triumph of principles by Marvin J. Ashton. It's a keeper. 

As y'all heard in the first email, we are having a blast here in Decatur. We love the work. The ward is improving and it's good . I looooooove being a missionary. It's a spiritual high all of the time so it's fantastic.

Love yall:) 

Sister Gray 

What happens when sis Gray says a really really long prayer.
Isn't she cute Lol? 
Exchanges



What?


Wakey, Wakey,


Sister Gray, Sister Dotson, Sister Thompson, Sister Keller



Off Roading - July 9, 2018

HELLO MY FAMILY:):)

This week has been fantastic! Ugh being a missionary is the best. There aren't even words to describe. We spent most of this week doing what we usually do, knock doors, teach a few lessons, work at the museum, clean some houses. Things like that. Overall it was a good week. It has been so hot and humid! I love it! We have been over 100 at some point every single day this week. One day, we were following up with a less active and had no luck. Sister K got in the car and was like "I feel like my face is melting off" I laughed and told her that it was literally 105 outside and it had every right to. She just laughed and we carried on. I love Texas heat.

I hope y'all had a great 4th! Unfortunately wise county (my entire area) is as under a burn ban. No fire, no fireworks, no sparklers. So, the only fireworks I saw this year were the ones I drew into my journal. Oh well:) we actually had a fantastic fourth. We started out with our zone in Denton to march in a parade! That's right y'all, Texas let's the Mormons march in the parade. Once again, there aren't a lot of things I don't love about Texas. One of those few things TEXAS BUGS. This week's bug of the week is red ants. As we were waiting for the parade to start I accidentally kicked a red ant hill. Red ants are fire ants on drugs. They are massive little brats that hook into your skin preventing you from brushing them off. So I marched in a parade with over 30 bites on my left foot. It was quite the experience. Totally worth it though, we had so much fun as a zone being together for a holiday. We also spent the day with the ward at a social. Tony, our investigator, was able to come and had a really good time. We had brisket with all of the bbq fixings. Y'all missed out!;)

We also retired our truck Frank this week. Frank is really old and had a lot of problems. It was a joyful goodbye. Elder Blonquist gave me the keys to a brand spanking new 2018 Tacoma truck. His name is Halbert Grayler (sister Gray and Keller's baby). I have never ever in my life driven a brand new vehicle and let me tell y'all, it feels GOOD. I will make sure I don't crash it or back into anything (reference to a certain brother whom I will not name but love dearly).

Saturday was had the privilege to leave the Fort Worth Mission to travel to Dallas. We were able to attend the temple with Donna and Phillip for their first time doing baptisms for the dead. What a marvelous night. Watching Donna do baptisms again filled me with the spirit. The same spirit that was present when she first covenanted with heavenly father. It was absolutely fantastic. I have had a lot of experiences happen this week that remind me what it means to sacrifice. We are promised in Doctrine and Covenants 130:20-21

"There is a law, irrevocably decreed in heaven before the foundations of this world, upon which all blessings are predicated. And when we obtain any blessing from God, it is by obedience to that law upon which it is predicated."

Sacrifice brings forth the blessings of Heaven. As I sat in the temple I was filled with the spirit. Which reminded me how wonderful and sacred temples are. I hadn't been since January and I missed that feeling. I sat waiting for our turn to enter the baptistry when a strong impression overtook my mind. I was instructed to not perform any baptisms. I didn't understand the prompting but I heeded to its counsel. I informed the Elder's Quorum president and he informed me that the baptistry was running 35 minutes behind. I knew that if I performed an ordinance I would not be able to return home on time. I was very sad but also thankful for that prompting. Heeding to the spirit brought another miracle. We entered into the baptistry and I sat on the bench, still a little sad that I would not be able to perform an ordinance. I looked at the crowd of people seated in the benches when I saw a familiar face. Unfortunately he turned away just before I could know for sure. He got up and entered another room that just so happened to have a window. A couple of minutes passed and I saw a familiar face looking through the window. He recognized me the same time I recognized him. My MTC teacher from 10 months ago was sitting across the room. He came out and rushed over and we had like 6 minutes to talk. It was so nice. I love brother Allred! He played such a huge role in my missionary attitude. It was so fun to see a friendly face and to talk with him. All of which wouldn't have happened if I didn't listen to the spirit.

So my challenge to y'all this week is to listen! Listen to the spirit! Listen to what it has to say and follow it's prompting! I promise it will make a huge impact on your life.

I sure do love y'all a d I'm thankful for everything y'all do. This church is true:) the Book of Mormon is true, as is the Bible. And God loves us more than anything. Talk to y'all next week.

Love,

Sister Gray

PICTURES
more goat pictures. Decatur has literally made me want 10,000 goats
Right after the ant attack, there is about 4 on my pinky toe:( also, thankful for Elders that have pockets and are eagle scouts because they hold my car keys and they have bandaids all the time. #blessup
Temple trip:)
Service
Sister Keller and I waiting for our new truck
This shows where all of the bites are.
Parade fun

I LOVE Y'ALL:):):)
Goat Girl


Pinky Toe with Ant Bites


Temple Trip with Phillip and Donna


Sister Gray, Phillip, Donna, and Sister Keller


Service Project


Sister Gray and Sister Keller after service project


Waiting for their new Truck 

Map of Ant bites



Parade fun

Parade Fun with two cuties! ! 






Chigger Nation - July 2, 2018

Hello my cute friends and family!

I owe y'all a huge apology! Last week My email was having some technical difficulties that prevented me from receiving any emails or sending any out. So I am very sorry that I was not able to talk to any of you. Trust me, it was not fun! I love hearing from y'all! I like hearing what is going on in the normal world (minus the drama, sad stories, and unnecessary news headlines because I don't need that in my life lol). I truly appreciate everything you do. 

It's a little daunting writing an email for the past two weeks. I don't really know where to start but I guess I will just hit my favorite points! Our weeks are passing by so fast! We had so many different service opportunities this week! We cleared off 3 different porches, stripped and painted a deck, fixed a sprinkler system (true testimony on how Heavenly Father guides your hands. I have not a clue about sprinklers. But God does;)), and cleaned out another hoarders house. 

Over all it was a productive week! We also had zone conference last week. Man, was it good! President and Sister Whitney are totally trunky (missionary term for ready to get on the plane and come home) they don't even try to hide it anymore. But, its really nice because a lot of us missionaries are trunky at some point during the week. So being able to openly talk about it with President helps.
We helped a less active clear out her yard. Something about Texas... CHIGGERS. if Satan had another name it would be Lord of the chiggers. There is nothing worse than a chigger bite. They are like giant mosquito bites that stay for several months. There is nothing you can do to ease the itch. They are little pesters I tell ya. So yep, basically I am dealing with 10-15 Chigger bites on my legs for the next 4+ months. Gotta love Texas and it's critters. It truly is chigger nation:) 

This week has been filled with more meetings, planning sessions, and multiple miracles. We have also strangely been around lots of animals this week. Decatur is like a giant farm. Emphasis on giant haha. This week we have really been praying individually and as a companionship for missionary work in Decatur. This is a very interesting area because tracting is the least effective finding source. The houses here sometimes spread 2 miles in between. With a 1/2 Mile driveway from the road. Yes, we can go tracting. But, we only knock a few houses due to the amount of walking that needs to occur. So, as we try to figure out a solution to our dilemma, we decided to dedicate our fast on Sunday for a miracle. A finding miracle. 

We woke up Sunday morning and did our regular activities. Went to meetings, called all of the less actives, texted everyone. We walked into sacrament meeting to find TWO walk in investigators. Other wise known as quails. Tony lives next to the church and is new to town. He is originally from Lebanon. We had so many people at church that me and Sister K split up in sacrament to cover more ground. I sat with Tony and asked him what compelled him to come to our church. He simply responded "Jesus Christ, He is on your sign!". I laughed and agreed. It was so much fun to teach him and let him know what we believe. He agreed with everything. He is coming to a party with us on Wednesday for the fourth. The ward is throwing a firework show and dinner and we are excited to go.
Something I have learned this week... do everything you can to support the missionaries. This isn't easy. This is hard. But, it's worth it. Member missionary work is essential. Always invited the missionaries over, invite them to bring their investigators, be warm and welcoming to the investigators. It is so hard to get people to come the church when the ward will not support you. I promise every single one of you that if you go and read your patriarchal blessing you will notice it will say something about member missionary work. Maybe not flat out, but it will mention it. THIS IS THE LORDS MOST IMPORTANT WORK. We CAN NOT do it without the members help. 

I am so grateful for each of you and the bright testimonies you have. Have a fantastic fourth and be safe with all of the fire. Texans and fire don't mix well but what could go wrong?:)

Love y'all.
Sister Gray


Post zone conf.
Me petting a baby cow
This is how members take us places... welcome to Texas
My current zone, and my first zone:')
The drive ways
Meet the ninja turtles, yes, she has all four of them.


Cutest Sister Missionaries ever! 


Sister Gray petting a baby Cow



Sister Gray and Keller petting a big cow


Travel Texas Style !


Zone Conference


Long Texas Driveways



Ninja Turtles . . . all 4 ! 


Post Zone Confernece


Sorry Mom - Jun 25, 2018



hey momma!

Its polo. my missionary email is completely out of whack right now so i am completely unable to send or receive any emails at the moment. missionary support said that they would get back to me in the next 3 days but that means that you probably will not hear from me for a little while. I will send a hand written letter this week so you can have something but I am kind of caught right now. I'm so sorry. I hope all is going well back home and everyone is happy. I got the package this week and it made me cry. Thank you so much. Cassidy and you did a great job. It made me feel so much better.


Have a great week mom. Sorry I cant write more.


Love always,


Sister Gray

***Mom's Note....Here are some extra pictures she sent the next week,  Sister Keller and Sister Gray seem to have a blast taking pictures,  I'm not even sure what to put as captions on some on them !








Gray Goats! - June 18, 2018

HELLLOOOOO.

Wow I sound like a 10 year old but I don't even care. This week has been SOOOO good! So much fun, too many laughs, wayyy too many pictures. I have had so much fun with sister Keller. There are not even words. Transfer week is always kind of lame but when one of your favorite people transfer into your area it because pretty great. We have had so much fun together. All while doing what we love most, missionary work. 

My week has been so good. Monday, we were playing volleyball with our zone for p day. I jumped to spike the ball (yes family, I am tall enough/can jump tall enough to spike) and crashed into an elder. We both came a tumbling down and I shreked my ankle. I sat there on the ground looking at my swelled ankle and just thought "ugh, elders.". I stood up walked around and carried on my way. I said a prayer that the swelling would go down and that I could drive home. My prayer was answered. By the time we arrived at dinner my ankle was simply blue but the swelling was gone. It still hurt but no incident will hinder my work. Heavenly Father helps his missionaries. 

We had the opportunity this week to help one of our members with her pet goats! She has a cute little goat farm with about 40 goats. She just had babies last week. We helped her muck stalls (eh, not my fav job, definitely not the grossest job I have ever had), brush goats, and check the babies to make sure they are doing well. Afterward we milked them. I don't know about y'all but MILKING A GOAT IS SO FUN. I love it so much. I milked 3 goats and had a nice container of milk. Slowly but surely I'm becoming more country. Next thing you know, I will be wearing boots, drinking root beer for breakfast, and saying "futher " instead of "further". Better watch out 🤠. 

We had stake conference this week and Elder Southward of the seventy came and joined us. It was an amazing experience. We were required to attend the leadership and adult meetings on Saturday. We spent nearly 6 hours at the stake center being trained, and taught, and spiritually uplifted. I love the refreshing experience of being touched by the spirit. In fact, right after the leadership meeting we had about an hour before the adult session. As we sat waiting (members drove us so we were slightly stranded at the stake center) I noticed a familiar face. Trying not to get my hopes up I tapped on this lady's shoulder. She turned around and her face lit up. If y'all remember my first email from Texas I shared an experience about meeting Dy. She is deaf and attends the deaf ward in the Denton stake. 

We exchanged hugs and were able to sign a little before the meeting started. I miss signing so much, I feel like I know nothing but hey, I was able to sign with her for a little while to see how my first area is doing. Afterwards, Elder Southward came up to me and started to chat, he asked me how my sign language mission was going. I laughed and said "great! I sound like a 3 year old!" He laughed and said how long have you been out? I replied 9 months. He then had a concerned look on my face that I didn't know how to sign and had been out 9 months. I laughed and told him I was in Decatur and I was not a sign language missionary. Simply communicating with an old friend. He laughed and said "you got me". Even the Lords representatives have a good humor. 

I love being a missionary so much. We spent most of this week contacting less actives and potential investigators. Twas a good week:) 

I love y'all so much! Have a blessed week and I hope all y'all had a great fathers day. Dad's are the bomb. Earthly dad's and our Heavenly dad. Both of which I love a lot:) thank you to all who have acted as a fatherly figure in my life. This includes my real  dad (true VIP), brothers, coaches, bishops, friends. All of you have had a great impact on my life and show the most amazing attributes of a fantastic father. Much love :') 

Love y'all!
Sister Gray


Goatsssss
My sister Keller 😅
Oh my goodness. The STLS kept asking for a picture of us so they could "know our faces" so we sent this...


Gray Goats. . . ..

Gray Goats and Sister Gray 

Sister Gray feeding Gray Goats 

Green eyes. . . Blue eyes. . . Beautiful eyes

Sister Keller and Sister Gray 
Nice Hair !

Sister Keller and Sister Gray